在網上只能找到此版本是比較像樣的. 我喜歡仁愛詩班唱的版本多些.
“不要怕 不要慌 風會停 浪會息 你要專心倚靠我 我會在你身旁”
Mon, Feb-1, 2010
Ron Deal’s idea again. I would like to put down a note and remind myself.
I need to change something. It’s not about others, just myself.
1. Learn to enjoy the current status instead of make becoming and insider.
2. Relax and stop expecting too much of myself.
“It takes fifteen years to learn how to parent a fifteen-year-old. I just got one yesterday, and no matter what I do, I’m fifteen years behind
David Mills, therapist”
Dear me, please always remember.
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come on girl, where is your humor?
what if she assumes me as a friend?
she said blah blah blah made me feel depressed
but she said blah blah blah …but I’m a friend for her
she assumes me as a FRIEND
hey, please ignore blah blah blah and be fed by the good news
isn’t it a new identity better than the wicked pre-stepmonster?
what an up-to-date good news!?
what a big progress!?
isn’t it what you have been expecting for a long time?
let’s show up. let’s cheer. let’s pick up a loudspeaker and tell everyone.
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Sat, Jan-30, 2010
Oh it’s crying time again
You’re gonna leave me
I can see that faraway look in your eyes
I can tell by the way you hold me, darling
That it won’t be long
Before it’s crying time
Oh they say that absence makes
The heart grow fonder
And that tears are on their way
To make love grow
Well, my love for you could never,
Never, never, never grow no stronger
If i live to be a hundred,
And i say a hundred years old
星期三, Jan-20, 2010
Just finished Chapter 2 of “The Smart Stepfamilies”. Ron Deal mentions that humor is one of our equipment to hang on during tough environment. He says he search through bible but he can’t find any so-called “perfect” family.
Adam and Eva didn’t know how to teach kids. Abraham and Sarah didn’t know how to protect their marriage. Jacob got two jealous wives and their sons planned to kill Joseph. David’s son raped his daughter. Even the most “normal” family, the “modeling” pair Isaac and Rebekah got a big gap on Esau and Jacob and that affects later lives of both Esau and Jacob very much. Every family gets their specific own problems.
However, the most appreciated love story is about Boaz and
the widow Ruth. The best “father” in bible is Mordecai who was actually stepfather of Esther. Our Lord Jesus was grown up by Joseph, who was Jesus’ stepfather indeed. Joseph was dead very likely before Jesus did his first sign in wedding in Cana and went into public, and Mary became a single parent when Jesus was still very young.
Although God desired one man and one woman in marriage, there is not ideal marriage or perfect family from our imaginations. All about is how we experience and gain in reality, walk in God’s way, and love for God’s sake.
Tue, Jan-19, 2010
The first chapter of Ron L. Deal’s “The Smart Step-Family” impresses me while my recent bible study is focused on Exodus.
Recently I’ve read several books on topics about stepfamilies and marriages. I can’t imagine if I haven’t read these books. Each book supports me in a specific way and give me a hand on my current situation. However, “The Smart Step-Family” restrengthen me by God’s words while I’m facing an issue of identity crises.
Ron Deal dives so deep in Exodus and applies the case about wilderness vs Caanan, God vs Israelites, to my current situation. He says that people as stepparents always get a major and critical problem. They are always be self-doubt and want to fall back while facing issues in stepfamilies, just like the Israelites in wilderness.
I think about every moments in past when I was acting like an Israelites in wilderness, whenever I encountered any issue, and I feel much better now.
Enjoy being handled by God instead of wishing God to handle the issues I’m facing. This is my prayer always in my mind in these days.
Tue, Jan-12, 2010
陷在一個環裏.
雄心壯志->中伏->被討厭->失落->自責->討厭自己->自暴自棄->被提醒->被鼓勵->自我調整->振作->雄心壯志->中伏……
今日無論如何要跳出來, 即使明知不能跳過 中伏至失落 的段落, 也要跳過從 自責到自暴自棄 的環節
“我來不就是要實行我的終極目標嗎?”
仍在曠野, 未入迦南, 但請自己把目光放在長遠目標上, 請自己不論如何被洗煉, 都不要放棄迦南的入場卷.
我來不是要勉強別人施捨給我甚麼. 人家沒有的東西, 何必要人家施捨給我? 我來是要做施比受更有福的一個.
感謝所有關心我的人. 有你們的支持作我的後盾, 有神的話作我的靠山, 我甚麼都不必害怕.
請善忘的我牢牢地緊記.
Tue, Jan-5, 2010
This book supports me when I feel frustrated and lost. Moreover, I discovered an important fact that the man SUFFERS MORE than I do. Thanks for the reminding and refreshing from the author, Jacquelyn B. Fletcher.
Tue, Jan-5, 2010
杞人沒有經歷過天塌下來, 而憂慮天塌下來
驚弓之鳥卻是箭傷未癒的大雁, 傷口仍在痛, 可怕的經歷仍在腦海, 恐懼仍在心中
是的, 我仍在害怕, 不論弓上有沒有箭.
Thu, Dec-24, 2009
Finally I’ve started to read this book. O Palmer Robertson analyses different kinds of sexual relationships, based on the book of Genesis in bible. I’m still reading, and feeling the author touches my heart.
“Unrequited love is a reality that must be faced by many people. This heartrending situation may extend across the years, and never be resolved with any satisfaction. Leah must be commended for displaying a faith that continued to look to the Lord in her distress. Even though she showed her resentment toward her sister in a very human response, she nonetheless persisted in crying out to the Lord and acknowledging his gracious help. Little more can be expected of God’s people who suffer from unrequited love in any generation.”
“Virtually any marriage can work, so long as people are willing to surrender personal preferences for the greater good of a stable relationship.”
From now on, I have to make myself become a haphazard person, and dump my original format of living: always fine planed and do everything effectively. Because I’ve entered a haphazard place, and I just want to love people at this place. I must love them more than my life.
