…… when autumn leaves start to fall
七月 2009
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Tue, Jul-28, 2009
Mon, Jul-27, 2009
發炎的盲腸割去了, 卻發現有甲狀腺亢進. 但我的人生向來就是這樣, 不會總是順利的. 還好現時情況尚輕, 服藥就可以了. 免不了被身邊的人訓話一番. 希望這些訓話不會變成壓力, 使我的病情惡化吧.
今日和朋友談話, 原來他也有甲狀腺亢進, 但已經復發了多次, 要飲碘水了. 他不甘心地向我講了一句: “點解所有好野都輪唔到我?” 聽到這個, 心頭一痛. 我知道發生在別人身上的事, 即使我再同情憐憫他也好, 我也不會完全明白他身心的苦痛.
我盼望的, 就是把病變得更有意義, 要病得懂體恤別人, 懂為別人設想, 懂從一個更貼近的角度去看別人的難處. 一切一切, 也是一種磨煉.
病, 不可怕.
死, 也不可怕.
可怕的, 只會是頭上陰魂不散的烏雲.
Fri, Jul-10, 2009
我知道我很令人討厭, 我也不是想令人討厭的, 但唯一方法就是繼續承受著令人討厭. 我能做到的就只有在令人討厭的情況下, 盡量告訴自己並不是真的那麼令人討厭, 盡量不去令自己也討厭自己. 其實這情形也可以不是那麼令人討厭啊, 如果神要我了解被人討厭的感受, 了解主耶穌被人討厭的感受, 我樂意承受這至暫至輕的苦楚.
Fri, Jul-10, 2009
Stepchildren Speak: 10 Grown-Up Stepchildren Teach Us How to Build Healthy Stepfamilies
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There are many books talking about stepparenting, but this is the only book in point of view of stepchildren.
Each chapter, a grown stepchildren talks about his/her experience, and suggest stepparents, parents and stepchildren some positive and useful ideas at the end of each chapter.
That’s so important to make an environment to let them express themselves as much as possible and feel loved. I know I’m imperfect and powerless, but at least I’m trying to know more and making efforts more.
