John Eldredge 提到男人和女人不同之處在於, 男人是在伊甸園還沒有劃定時創造的, 女人則是在伊甸園內造的. 男人是屬於戰爭, 冒險, 危險.

這本書把一般人眼中的"好男人"形象打破. 男人只有回到本性裏, 才能活出真正的自己. 對我來說, 是一個比較深入了解男人內心深處面對的傷口, 醫治, 尋回真我的過程. 我也會反省, 我們是否過份地要求男人要做我們心目中的好男人, 而忽視了神起初創造的男人時的設計意念呢?

“Eve was created within the lush beauty of Eden’s garden. But Adam, if you’ll remember, was created outside the Garden, in the wilderness."
“In the heart of every man is a desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue."

This book broke the image of “nice guy" in people’s eyes. Man need to have the chance to live out their true selves. This book describe the process of man facing their wounds, being healed, finding their true selves. I ask myself that if we asked man for being “nice guy" instead of the actual idea from God when man was created?