當一個人的生活總是走在一個"活像正軌"的模式裏, 到了某個地步, 會發現自己不知道自己為甚麼要這樣生活. 會感到疑惑, 更多時候是自己正在困惑之中都不知道.

看了這電影"談談情 跳跳舞", 是原來的日本版本, 即"Shall we dance?"

此電影本身的情節的編排也很像一首歌, 一支舞. 開始時, 用緩慢, 甚至不動的鏡頭, 帶出男主角幾近凝固的生活, 連舞老師的表情也總是凝固著的! 轉捩點在於中段, 舞老師因為男主角學跳舞的動機而憤怒(很難怪的, 男人是由視覺出發的嘛, 天性唷), 同時男主角卻已慢慢對跳舞有了興趣和熱誠, 鏡頭也動得愈來愈快; 最後連帶舞老師也被他的熱誠感染.

我也曾這樣問自己: 究竟我活著是為了沒完沒了地, 拼著命要達到別人眼中理想的標準, 還是有更重要的意義? 有沒有一件事情, 是使我狂熱, 使我感到我真的在活著, 附帶著周圍的人也會受到感染, 影響, 鼓勵? 追尋的過程, 往往苦樂參半, 得失無常. 問題在於劇中一句"Shall we dance?", 能否活在當下?

When one have been living in a “very normal mode" for a very long time, one will doubt himself why he should live like this, or even never understand that he’s in doubt.

I saw this movie “Shall we dance?", the original Japanese version.

The arrangement of this movie is also like a song, a dance. At the beginning, the congealed life of the leading role is presented by many fixed scenes. Even the face of Miss dance is also congealed! The turning point is when Miss dance learned the true motive of the leading role for learning dancing, and she got angry(That’s normal. Miss dance is very beautiful and man always start from vision.) However, he was really interested in dancing with passion more and more, and the scenes are moving also faster and faster. At last, Miss dance was also touched by his passion to dancing.

Once upon a time, I asked myself: I want to live as expectations in people’s eyes, or there is something more important? Is there anything make me pay a great passion to, make me feel alive, and even move others around me? It are much bittersweet and variable experiences on the searching path. The key point is the title of the movie: “Shall we dance?" Can I always live in the moment?